THE EPISCOPAL CHURCH OF
BETHESDA-BY-THE-SEA,
PALM BEACH, FLORIDA

Proper 25A [October 27, 1996]
CANON RICHARD T. NOLAN

     I do not have a heartwarming sermon to offer this morning. Instead, I have a whole course to present within the allotted time. I have my professorial hat with me; let's get to work!

     Years ago, when I used the word "love" as a central point of a sermon, I noticed that a member of the congregation dismissively rolled her eyes. She later told me that as she tries to raise four children, contend with some obnoxious relatives, and help her husband run their demanding business, she really didn't need to hear greeting card slogans from the pulpit. To her and perhaps others, generalities about love are fuzzy, impractical, simplistic, and even annoying. Conceivably, the Summary of the Law taught by Jesus in today's Gospel is pleasant rhetoric about affectionate feelings - but, devoid of substance. Perhaps, references to love should be entrusted to Valentine cards or consigned to a retirement home for clichés. On the other hand, it might be wise for us to explore Jesus' Summary of the Law, the circumstances and meanings of his fundamental and most general teaching about love for God, one's neighbor, and oneself.

     The occasion for the Summary included these circumstances: among Jesus' own people there were about 613 laws recognized by the Jewish leadership. Rabbis debated frequently whether all the laws were equally binding. In that context a lawyer, one of the rabbinical scholars who taught and applied Mosaic law, challenged Jesus: "Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?"

     Jesus began his answer with words from the Shema - which means "Hear." Now listen to that watchword of the Jewish faith from Deuteronomy [6:4,5], a sacred message of Islam, a sacred declaration revered by Jesus and ourselves: "Hear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your might." Whether translated with "might," "mind," or "strength," this greatest and first commandment is conceivably Judaism's greatest contribution to the religious thought of humankind, the source from which Judaism repeatedly draws strength for inspiration and rejuvenation. It is the great text of biblical monotheism, a foundational statement of Christianity rephrased in Islam.

     However, is there any substance to the expression "You shall love the Lord your God"? In the Bible, human love for God is much more than a generalized feeling of affection. Moreover, we can say right away that our love for the one God of the Universe does not require, as some would say, an ongoing exile from other people, spiritual self-annihilation, or altered states of consciousness to commute to supposed spirit worlds. Biblical love is not about any trance states, acute yearnings to bask in ethereal spirituality, or other uncommon experiences.

     Instead, as lived by Christ, the love for God commanded in the Shema involves our ordinary life of thought, emotion, and will committed entirely to God. Love for God includes our devout, steadfast loyalty that is the very foundation of the covenant community. Love for the Almighty embodies reverence before God's awesome majesty, as well as our gratitude and joy. Love for God entails our respectful, willing acceptance of the responsibilities of covenant living with the full measure of our devotion. Love for God includes our quiet, personal trust in his sovereign Spirit to comfort us, to give us strength to cope, and to heal our hearts. Human love for God welcomes communion with the Lord, as we individually and corporately pray in adoration, praise, thanksgiving, and penitence, in self-offering, intercession, petition, and, yes, in venting our sufferings. According to our Holy Writings, our love for God in its many ordinary dimensions is the fitting response to God's numerous and benevolent initiatives in creation, in the journey of the covenant community, and in our individual pilgrimages. Clearly there is substance to the biblical charge to love God; the combination of Godward affection, commitment, loyalty, reverence, gratitude, joy, acceptance of responsibilities, trust, and prayerful communion is the very "stuff" of our love for our Heavenly Father.

     Jesus continued: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." Though he was not the first Jew to do so, our Lord coupled the Shema with the love of neighbor law from Leviticus (19:18). However, he made love of God and love of neighbor as oneself inseparable and of equal importance. As an inward, personal response to God's sovereign deeds of kindness and benevolence, the community of faith is to walk in the way of humanitarian love and justice.

     Who is the neighbor we are commanded to love? Why is "neighbor" in the singular, and why doesn't the commandment simply say "others?" In the Old Testament "neighbor" generally means a fellow Israelite, including fellow Jews and resident aliens - "someone living nearby." Love is for this particular person rather than for the human race in general. In the New Testament Jesus expanded the meaning of "neighbor" to include others, even those outside the community, regardless of class, culture, racial or national heritage, and apparent worthiness. Throughout the ages Christians have interpreted "those outside the community" in various ways to include the entire cosmos, all living creatures, all humankind, or, some or all persons with whom one comes into face-to-face contact. Without a clear-cut New Testament definition of "neighbor," it is up to the prayerful conscience of each Christian to determine at any given time the extent of one's neighborhood, that is, the persons to love, with the personal responsibilities love may call for in concrete situations. I would hope that Christian congregations would recognize themselves as a communities of neighbors and determine their range of responsibilities to each other.

     What is neighborly love in the Bible? Neighborly love begins at home and works outward; it is shown by deeds, though it is a matter of the heart. God's people are called to champion those among them who are weak or helpless, especially orphans and widows. Unsentimental and practical, love of neighbor means imitating God's dealings with Israel, in order that a spirit of sibling love and solidarity may pervade the community. The substance of that love is to rejoice in a neighbor's good fortune. To love is to show mercy, to offer forgiveness to the penitent, and to show patience; to love is to hold one's neighbor in equal regard to oneself. To love is to empathize and be present, even silently, perhaps economically, to a neighbor in need. To love is to meet everyone in a life-promoting or enhancing way; it is to treat each person with whom we interact as an end in him/herself - whether employee or employer, whether patient or doctor, whether customer or salesperson, whether friend or adversary, and so on.

     A word of caution in this regard: We do need to avoid an abstract and impersonal "love for people" in general, which is more convenient than loving a specific individual near by. There are people that supposedly love humanity, but who love no one in particular. However "love of neighbor" is understood, I am convinced that Christians should never be hard-hearted or indifferent to those considered beyond one's neighborhood. No person anywhere is to be regarded as a "thing." Is it not true that without exception, every human being is worthy of the invitation to the new, baptized life in Christ? If not "love," an inclusive compassion for all human beings would seem to be a right disposition for Christian people.

     And, now, consider Jesus words "as yourself." Many women and men have been raised to be "givers." They have been taught that only other people's needs matter. They can provide for others, but are often difficult to provide for. They are ready to be helpers, but cannot ask for help. Sometimes they have a desperate need to be needed, an exaggerated sense of responsibility. The idealization of absolute selflessness in some religious circles has too often encouraged the disregard of the final two words of the Summary, "as yourself." Surely, pious self-neglect is not the love lived fully by Jesus Christ. Self-love, holding oneself in equal regard to one's neighbor, flows from the graceful self-acceptance we receive from God in baptism. As a named, unique, sanctified child of God, each of us deserves the love offered by our neighbors; each of us should take into account our own needs, because we're worth it. Actually, we can best reach out in love toward others when we are confident of our own worth and value. Other than in unusual circumstances, a balance between loving others and self-regard is the norm.

     My neighbors in Christ, our Lord has freed us from any debate about six hundred thirteen laws. Our liberation to live our lives as an art, unfettered by imprisoning mandates, has been well stated and lived by God's Word, Jesus Christ. The Summary of the Law is the absolute value upon which all other values, laws, and ethical decisions depend. Although the appropriate loving action is not automatically obvious for each situation, in the Summary we have been equipped with the context for determining our choices. There can be no reasonable doubt about its substance, that it is not mere rhetoric. With gratitude to Christ and with joy, hear it again: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets."